The Same Page
Last updated 17 June 2026
The Same Page is a tool for helping two people understand each other a little better. It is deliberately narrow. This page is about what it is not, so you can decide whether it's the right thing to use — and where to turn when it isn't.
If you or someone else is in immediate danger, this is not the right tool.
Contact your local emergency number now (for example 999 in the UK or 911 in the US). If you are in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, you can also reach a crisis line such as the Samaritans on 116 123 (UK and Ireland) or the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (US, call or text 988). The service is not monitored by a human in real time and cannot help in an emergency.
The Same Page is not therapy, counselling, psychotherapy, or any form of mental-health treatment, and the AI is not a therapist, psychologist, or clinician. It does not diagnose, treat, or give clinical advice, and it is no substitute for care from a qualified professional. If you are struggling, please speak to a doctor or a licensed mental-health professional.
Nothing in the service — including the conversation, the re-phrasings, or the final document — is legal advice, and using it creates no lawyer–client relationship. The document is not a contract, a legal agreement, or evidence, and shouldn't be treated as one. For anything with legal weight (separation, custody, tenancy, employment, and so on), consult a qualified lawyer in your jurisdiction.
The Same Page is not professional, legal, or court-recognised mediation, and the AI is not a trained or accredited mediator. It offers structure and neutral re-phrasings; it does not provide the judgement, accountability, or protections of a human mediator. If your situation needs formal mediation or dispute resolution, seek an accredited mediator or the appropriate service.
The service is not an emergency, crisis, or safety service. It is not staffed, not monitored in real time, and cannot summon help. Its automated safety checks may pause a session, but you must never rely on them to detect or respond to danger. In an emergency, always use the resources above.
The Same Page assumes two people taking part freely and in good faith. It is not appropriate, and should not be used, where there is domestic abuse, coercive control, intimidation, or a meaningful imbalance of power or safety between the two people — and it must never be used to monitor, pressure, manipulate, or build a case against someone. A tool that surfaces what each person is thinking can be turned into a means of control; please don't use it that way, and don't take part if you feel unsafe doing so.
The mediator is an AI language model. It can misunderstand, leave things out, or state things that are inaccurate or unsuitable. Its re-phrasings are suggestions for you to check, edit, or reject — not facts, advice, or our opinion. Always read anything before you approve it for sharing, and use your own judgement.
Understanding is the most the service aims for, and even that isn't guaranteed. We make no promise that it will resolve a disagreement, repair a relationship, or change anyone's mind or behaviour. Any decision you make, and any change in your circumstances afterwards, is yours — not the service's.
Taking part is voluntary and at your own discretion and risk. By using the service you accept this disclaimer, which forms part of our Terms of Service. Questions are welcome at contact@getonthesamepage.app.
Questions about these pages? Contact contact@getonthesamepage.app.